Believe the best or assume the worst (Part 2)
So part 1 of this topic was introducing what is all the " believe the best, assume the worst " was about. http://eddproteo.blogspot.com/2012/12/believe-best-or-assume-worst.html So as I have stated in my last post. We develop an attitude when we fill in the gap. And that gap is what it is promised . The expectations of someone. What you see and who you are causes what we put into the gap . It determines whether we believe the best or assume otherwise. The experience we go through shapes the decisions we make. People who are able to stay in love learn to believe the best. In every relationships there is always misunderstandings . Whether happy ones or unhappy ones. What makes it different is the happy ones believed the best while the unhappy ones assumed the worst. Remember the first time one fell in love? Everything the other person does is good. Nothing bad about him or her. Because we believed the best. As Andy Stanley would say it "She is not impatient, she i