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Friend or like?

              By the way what I am going to say has nothing to do with me. How to distinguish between friend or like. I think this is one of the biggest blunder in relationships. The factors that destroys friendships. What do you think?             Some of you may say it takes skill to distinguish between acting as a friend and liking the friend. I say it is totally wrong . If it was a skill then many friendships would be destroyed now.  But I would say this though. The ability....argh it ain't an ability, but to know this it takes keen observation and knowing the other person. Why some people can't distinguish? Well I can't give u a 100% answer, just in theories . I think when one confesses and gets rejected, he would think he is being played right? Because the other person was being a " good friend " to him and he took the " good friend "thing differently. He....or she can't see it because they were able to convince themselves the other party li