Malaysian Christian Writes

What do we really know about relationships? You claim we know them , but...Do we? Do we really understand the administration and decrees of a relationship? People today just get into a relationship and when asked the question 'why?'....They can't seem to answer. Do we know what we are getting into actually? These days all I see are people getting together and breaking up. Sad scene indeed.  When you say you like someone and they like you back, is that a reason to get into a relationship? Probably, but are the premises strong enough to make it lasting? You may also say " She/He is loving, caring , generous, kind, sweet, fun,etc....that is why I like her/him ". True. These may be the reasons. If he/she was not that way initially, you may not fall in love. But, that is just the surface on getting onto a relationship don't you think? The other factors that come in are like time, how you compromise, how serious are you, objectives, motives and so on. I mea...

Before I begin, the title that started with a 'him' instead of 'her' has nothing to do with sexism. There is only so much we can know about a person . Truth be told no matter how much one can disclose, there is always one part of a person that you do not know. The secret background of the person. The unknown . The thing is, we are never truly ourselves when we are in the public. Even with your best friend, there is always that 10% of you that you may be hiding, be it consciously or not. We put on a mask for the world to see everyday.  Let me tell you the moment when I can be truly myself is when I am with my family . You may say you know the person. True, but only to a certain extend. The person next to you may be a ex-convict, the person opposite you that wears pink pants is actually a PhD holder, the person going crazy jumping around can be a Motivational speaker. You never know. =_=( yup you never do). People see me as outgoing always so joyful and happ...

We....are.....only...human.   We are nothing but a lump of clay.  We are imperfect in many ways yet beautiful.  Everyone has their own problems not only you. If you observe a little more, you will see that everyone wants someone beside them when they are sad, everyone just wants company, everyone needs answers, everyone is searching for the right thing, not only you. We continue to do wrong, and judge, condemn, compare, be ignorant, be insensitive and lose ourselves along the way. We are only HUMAN and no doubt we all need help. Remind yourselves that no one is in control. We cannot control the circumstances that happens to us. Everyone has their own little cry in their hearts that needs to be mended. We get hurt, we have broken families,  we all get lonely, we all have trouble letting go, we all go through SHIT.  All of us go through all of this at some point in life. But is the answer to get all worked up over it? Be depressed? Get mad? Act as if e...

Before I begin, lets just say I had the best Deepavali ever!!! All Thanks to Sasi. So As you have read the headlines...I lost my wallet for a moment.Yeap So I was on my way to my University which is HELP. After hanging out with my friends for about one and a half hours I noticed my pocket was flat. I was like " Oh My GOSH!!!! I lost my wallet!!! " I searched high and low , up and down, everywhere and concluded it fell somewhere. Last move is to call my brother. The whole time I was telling God " What you want to teach me? What is this? Ok ok I'll praise you in the storm no matter what. " So I kept praising God. Then God gave me peace and I was calm. I was reminded that we should rejoice in all circumstances in the Bible. I said to myself " Ok God whatever it is, You are in control. ". So i called my bro. Me: Ko, I lost my wallet Bro: Oh My Gosh........ Blah blah blah....concluded that a police report is needed to be made. He came with his wife, i to...

 So today the moment i woke up everyone was gone. Who do I stay with? My brother, sister-in-law, and her brother. So I figured one went to work while the newly weds went shopping or something. So i waited and waited doing my term paper. Morning went to afternoon, then evening. Called my mum several times saying that "koko"( brother) is not home. So 11pm my mum told me to call him and this was how the conversation went. Phone dialing ...toot toot toot toot...me(worried)...toot toot toot toot...why isn't he picking? Brother: Hello?( In a tired sleepy voice) Me: Ko...Where are you? Brother: Er Penang. Me: Oh ya ya you were saying about going to Penang (sweat sweat sweat I had no idea at all? never tell me.....) Brother: Ya. Me: Ok bye Hangs up. My face.....imagine the face ( You're dead to me) and then =.=lll ultimate sweat,. for those who do not know where or what Penang is...Penang is a state in Malaysia.

I am a boy, just living in Malaysia doing what he does best. People say I am a " holy,holy " person because I do not drink, smoke, get drunk or be crude and all. Wrong. Not doing all those things does not make me holy. No one is holy. It is just that I do not get involve with these activities because the consequences can be heavy. I am just an ordinary human with an ordinary life. Nothing hard to get. I am indeed blessed with a good life but that does not make me free from problems . I may seem calm in hard times that is because I know what matters most . I may seem to worry less because if i spent today worrying about tomorrow I cannot give my best for today for tomorrow's worry are meant for tomorrow. I  know what I am doing in life that is because I know what I want to be .( begging the question) I am just imperfect as everyone of you. I am just as a hypocrite as everyone of you. I am just selfish as everyone of you. As humans, I also like to indulge with myse...

Ordinary man . Working for a living. Doing a routine job everyday . Wakes up, drives to work, works till evening, comes home for dinner, reads the newspaper, then sleeps. Simple , normal life. Dull...indeed.                             One day he wakes up late. Arrives at his office 10 minutes late. Hands in his paper work and the boss is unsatisfied with it.The Boss scolds him like crazy for that submitted work of his has cost millions for the company. He fires him and asks him to pack his belongings and leave.                         He puts his things one by one, with anger and frustration . Throwing everything into the box. Even the picture of his family. He walks the hall of shame as everybody looks at him. Walking by the street, a c...