Questions? or is there more than that?

Questions were formed to help clarify that you wanted answers. Without questions, no one would know that you needed an answer. Otherwise we would be like Neanderthals screaming our heads off if we wanted to drink when all we needed to say was " Hey, I'm thirsty, can I have something to drink?".
                 But even with questions, more often than not we do not get our answer. Why is that? Are we asking the wrong questions? Are we afraid to ask the right one? Many times in life I find myself asking the wrong question and at the same time, the answer does not need a question. The answer would sometimes be right in front of me. Haha, I'm slow. 
                Our Y generation nowadays always want things simple, quick and fast. We would not want to wait. We want to take the escape route. We say things like " I do not want to think about it", " I just want to get over with it and move on", " I hate it when this happens, or when that happens ". Not thinking about it, does it solve it? Getting over it is good, but does it resolve anything if it were not confronted in the first place. And our generation just tend to get agitated over the simplest things like using the wrong words, or not doing something right. Then let me remind you, we are only humans and we make mistakes. If you condemn little things like this, you are being a hypocrite for we all do the same thing. We ask and get shot down, we do not ask we still get shot down. We are not sure what we want in life any more. Are you sure?
             So sometimes, it is just easier to stay silent and not ask for in the end, questions formed to clarify things have the ability to complicate things even more. Basically I am just being very abstract here. You all may be confused to what I am trying to say here. But it is like a metaphor to show that asking questions or not, shit still happens no matter what no matter how. So the question I am asking you now is " What do we know? and What are we sure of?". Just think about it.


PS I placed few issues in here to state my point. We are just so very confused most of the time. We do not know what to do. We just want it done. We feel so hopeless at times. So, where do you find your hope?

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