True Friends
I have blogged about true friends last time( When I was less matured). Now I bring a different angle towards it.
When you have true friends by your side, it gives you the sense of security and completeness.
Having a true friend allows you to put down your defence walls. Allows you to share your inner thoughts. Allows you to be who you are not not masking around your true self. Allows you to express who you truly are inside.
Realise this as well, the people who hurt you the most are usually your true friends. Why? Because we have got so close that we expect most from them. In life we sometimes forget that we are only human, and we make mistakes. So when we do something wrong, it would disappoint the other most for they expect more from you. It is normal. =)
Whatever they do, seems to have big impacts on you. Life can be awesome all the way, but once you have that bond, your true friends becomes what makes your life awesome. They have a significant piece of your life and you have a significant piece of theirs.
The best part about true friends is that no matter what the problems they face, be it crushed, stepped down, kicked, or being stabbed in the back, they are by your side ready to provide their shoulder to you. They stand by you always. They listen to you, take in your crap, for they understand you. We need true friends in our lives =).
So when the friendship is put to the test, the joy out of every argument or fight is that they know, that the friendship shall grow stronger, they shall forgive each other, and continue to love one another.
I have many friends, but few true friends.....And I will never, let them go.
A real friend is loyal and sticks closer than a brother/sister. Loyalty makes a person attractive, it is better to be poor than dishonest. Wounds from a sincere friend are better than kisses from the enemy.
When you have true friends by your side, it gives you the sense of security and completeness.
Having a true friend allows you to put down your defence walls. Allows you to share your inner thoughts. Allows you to be who you are not not masking around your true self. Allows you to express who you truly are inside.
Realise this as well, the people who hurt you the most are usually your true friends. Why? Because we have got so close that we expect most from them. In life we sometimes forget that we are only human, and we make mistakes. So when we do something wrong, it would disappoint the other most for they expect more from you. It is normal. =)
Whatever they do, seems to have big impacts on you. Life can be awesome all the way, but once you have that bond, your true friends becomes what makes your life awesome. They have a significant piece of your life and you have a significant piece of theirs.
The best part about true friends is that no matter what the problems they face, be it crushed, stepped down, kicked, or being stabbed in the back, they are by your side ready to provide their shoulder to you. They stand by you always. They listen to you, take in your crap, for they understand you. We need true friends in our lives =).
So when the friendship is put to the test, the joy out of every argument or fight is that they know, that the friendship shall grow stronger, they shall forgive each other, and continue to love one another.
I have many friends, but few true friends.....And I will never, let them go.
A real friend is loyal and sticks closer than a brother/sister. Loyalty makes a person attractive, it is better to be poor than dishonest. Wounds from a sincere friend are better than kisses from the enemy.
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