You are not the only one

Sometimes in the lrt if I do not have a book to read I observe( in a so not stalk-ish creepy way). I notice people smiling, laughing, frowning, sleeping, stoning,etc. I wonder what are they thinking or feeling at that moment.
You are not the only one. What I am saying is, when you've think you've got it all wrong and the world around you is falling, nothing seems right, everything you do seems to make it worse, and all you feel is giving up.... tell yourself this " I am not the only one ". One thing is for sure whatever you are going through you're not alone. As you grow and mature you'll see it. It is not anyone's fault. Sometimes problems do get to you. But a problem need not be a crisis. A crisis is something that gives you permission to panic and lament( to what I think). But a problem, is just a problem. 
When I get to know a person I listen to what they have to say, I listen to their stories and what they have to tell me. Some have worse problems, than others and all they want is to let it off their chest. They do not always seek a solution, just someone to listen to. So take a chill pill when you feel like breaking down. Relax and take the problem one step at a time. There is always, I repeat, always a solution to every problem.
For those who know me. You wonder how I am so relax?....Ok sometimes I lose it but yeah I can control pisssshhhhh I'm human. It is because I have The Lord with me. I trust in Him and I lay everything down at His feet. And after that, everything just falls into place. I have nothing to worry.
So don't always think everything revolves around you. Do not make everything about you because sometimes, it is just not you. 
Peace Out!

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