Virginity

Personally I think it is sad to know that in The US, being a virgin is seen as a curse and being weak. As if being a virgin is such a bad thing. I have heard testimonies of people regretting losing their virginity both men and women. There are consequences.Remember, virginity is a gift that can only be unwrapped once. Pre-marital sex, is so wrong. Probably in the corrupted eyes of society it is fine. But not according to the bible.Have some respect for yourself and for the other person.

Like Grey's Anatomy, I like the show a lot but there was one episode where the doctors were so proud in saying when they lost their virginity while one girl who is saving it for the right one is ridiculed and mocked.
PATHETIC.

What is it that you can be so proud of. Listen to this " Hey I lost my virginity when I was 14, I am amazing ". Read it and tell me, are you proud of claiming that?  Now listen to what a virgin can say " Now I am married I proudly would say I have waited all my life for you and I have no regrets" or " I have been saving this for you".Now that is something cool. Losing virginity technically means you are weak and you cant hold your animal like lust plus a few others but lets keep this brief shall we?Sex is a gift only meant for husband and wife..Not future husband and wife but A married couple. Plus casual sex can cause lots of STD's( sexually transmitted disease) such as HIV, HPV, Siflis, etc. When is the right time? When you are married.

When teachers have sex education with students it is as if they are saying " you are no better than dogs but here is some protective tools like condoms". Plus condoms are not 100% effective. What is 100% effective? Abstinence.

Lets make VIRGINITY the new cool. Whadaya say? ^.^V

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