True Friends.

My friend gave a good point on true friends. He said I was one of his best friends. Then I said, " oh but i rarely spend time with you". He then replied saying a good friend need not be a friend who is always with you. I understood by what he meant. I felt foolish for saying that to him then.

Coating from Miley Cyrus song " You're a true friend, you're here till the end. You pull me aside when somethin' ain't right"
 And
Demi Lavato gift of a friend "The world comes to life and everything's bright,From beginning to end when you have a friend by your side,That helps you to find the beauty you are When you open your heart and believe in the gift of a friend. 

True friends doesn't mean " I have known you for 10 years "...That just means your long known friend. A true friend is a person who acts as a friend. Who is there for you. When you call him, he is willing to make that sacrifice to give his time to you. If you are sad, he gives his time to you to listen and tries to help you.

A true friend is a friend that loves you so much that he is willing to break you down and show your mistakes, tell you what you did wrong so you can improve and not lie to him. A true friend defends each other. A true friend respects ones principles. A true friend will be your personal advocate and adviser.

Not the ones that has known you for long. A true friend is being the real friend a person needs. A true friend is the person who explains the meaning and significance of a friend through his actions.

Peace Out ^.^ V~











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