Friends Forever

I am one blessed guy to be circled around a group of awesome friends. And by the way, the group is a big group. The people I know , no one is bad. Perfect nope. Someone told me that I always try to see the good in everyone and somehow people will use it to their advantage for their own selfish reasons. For that sometimes my kindness have been taken for granted.

Fine, It is something bad, but the benefits are way more and out weighs the downside on being this way. Being as you say... Trying to see the good in everyone enables you to bring the best out of a certain person. Example if this particular guy/girl is a douche with most people but when with you he/she is a different person, much better to be with, more preferable. Get what I mean. Yeah that is my skill and I love it.

Probably one of the reasons most people like to be around me. I try my best to set out a good example as a human being. Be a role model.
Be someone admired. Do not misunderstand my statement about being admired. I do not meant it in a way like I am so attracted to him( maybe a little).
But what I really mean is this... People admire me in a way that they should follow my example as a person. Again I am not boasting. I admit there are parts of myself which are not admirable at all.
This only means I should learn from other people and sculpt myself into a better figure.

I love my friends deeply. I pray for them everyday. I pray for their safety. I pray for their well being. If they have a problem I pray for them.The love between friends is another beautiful thing besides love between family and companion. Let me say , once you're friends with me, it would be hard to get rid of me.

I am very grateful for the friends I have known. One of my priorities in life besides God, family, and what not is friends.

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