Being sentimental

A friend once told me " A person who is inclined to music is usually sentimental". I was like, hey I am inclined to music. Which means I am sentimental. Yeah I am. Personally I think it is lame to be one as a guy. But I just am. Nothing that I want to change. God created me this way. Hmmm maybe I was too harsh on myself to use the word LAME.

What I think is being sentimental can sometimes show weakness and vulnerability. Ok lets speak in terms of the current era. Crying is just not sexy for a guy. It is not romantic. When a guy cries I don't know why i imagine the guy's nose being as red as rudolph sobbing on a box of tissues like he is having the cold only with emotions.

Lucky I am not as bad as that. Now for me how would I make being sentimental sexy? Glad you asked..Ah I know u asked.

Over the years I developed a skill to hold tears. Ain't gonna share with you how. So I occasionally let out a small sob, probably a tear down to showed I feel something.
I do not weep or cry with sound effects. Maybe I just make a nose sound to let the party know I teared up a little ( if that ever happens to me).

It is like giving the thought, oh this guy knows how to feel. If you are sentimental, make it to good use and do not make yourself look like a wimp.

Peace out V

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