Malaysian Christian Writes

My friend gave a good point on true friends. He said I was one of his best friends. Then I said, " oh but i rarely spend time with you". He then replied saying a good friend need not be a friend who is always with you. I understood by what he meant. I felt foolish for saying that to him then. Coating from Miley Cyrus song " Y ou're a true friend, you're here till the end. You pull me aside when somethin' ain't right "  And Demi Lavato gift of a friend "T he world comes to life and everything's bright,From beginning to end when you have a friend by your side,That helps you to find the beauty you are When you open your heart and believe in the gift of a friend.  True friends doesn't mean " I have known you for 10 years "...That just means your long known friend. A true friend is a person who acts as a friend. Who is there for you. When you call him, he is willing to make that sacrifice to give his time to you. If you are ...

              By the way what I am going to say has nothing to do with me. How to distinguish between friend or like. I think this is one of the biggest blunder in relationships. The factors that destroys friendships. What do you think?             Some of you may say it takes skill to distinguish between acting as a friend and liking the friend. I say it is totally wrong . If it was a skill then many friendships would be destroyed now.  But I would say this though. The ability....argh it ain't an ability, but to know this it takes keen observation and knowing the other person. Why some people can't distinguish? Well I can't give u a 100% answer, just in theories . I think when one confesses and gets rejected, he would think he is being played right? Because the other person was being a " good friend " to him and he took the " good friend "thing differently. He....or she can't see it b...

I am one blessed guy to be circled around a group of awesome friends. And by the way, the group is a big group. The people I know , no one is bad. Perfect nope. Someone told me that I always try to see the good in everyone and somehow people will use it to their advantage for their own selfish reasons. For that sometimes my kindness have been taken for granted. Fine, It is something bad, but the benefits are way more and out weighs the downside on being this way. Being as you say... Trying to see the good in everyone enables you to bring the best out of a certain person. Example if this particular guy/girl is a douche with most people but when with you he/she is a different person, much better to be with, more preferable. Get what I mean. Yeah that is my skill and I love it. Probably one of the reasons most people like to be around me. I try my best to set out a good example as a human being. Be a role model . Be someone admired. Do not misunderstand my statement about being admired...

A friend once told me " A person who is inclined to music is usually sentimental ". I was like, hey I am inclined to music. Which means I am sentimental. Yeah I am. Personally I think it is lame to be one as a guy. But I just am. Nothing that I want to change. God created me this way. Hmmm maybe I was too harsh on myself to use the word LAME . What I think is being sentimental can sometimes show weakness and vulnerability. Ok lets speak in terms of the current era. Crying is just not sexy for a guy. It is not romantic. When a guy cries I don't know why i imagine the guy's nose being as red as rudolph sobbing on a box of tissues like he is having the cold only with emotions. Lucky I am not as bad as that. Now for me how would I make being sentimental sexy? Glad you asked..Ah I know u asked. Over the years I developed a skill to hold tears. Ain't gonna share with you how. So I occasionally let out a small sob, probably a tear down to showed I feel something. I do no...

Okay clearly I am inexperience to talk about this matter. I'm 17 for goodness sake! But still, I am 100% that at least 3 out of 5 are interested in knowing... THE ONE . Well I ask my brother , " How do you know it is her? How do you know she is the one for you? How do you know she is the one? " Yes it has always been the mystery. And my brother would say " You don't! " in an exasperated manner He then says " You just know " That answer has never been good enough for me. He told me not to go searching for The One but let the one come to you So this is what i think of the one... lets see whether I am proven right in the future. In life, you meet many people. In life you under go many circumstances, situations, problems, hurdles and whatever god forsaken shit on this world. Many people you meet will become your friends and family. Many people will come and touch you. The One...is the one person who touches you and it completely changes you...

It may be normal to many people but this word is one word I try to avoid. True man are attracted women and all with their high levels of testosterone. But being a love junky must really suck! I mean you fall in love so quickly one after the other. Desperate for companionship and relationship. Whatever personalities you have, try not to fall in love so quickly. After a rejection you go looking for a new target after a month of sulking. Doesn't is suck? Makes you feel like a...like a....Help me out here guys...and girls...Like a guy who would never stay loyal. You get that uneasy feeling that settles on top of your conscience causing your inner man to shout out " Hey me! something is wrong with you! " Love Junky yeah... I do not want to be like that. If I ever am that I should change. Listen I am not saying it is a bad thing. It is a normal thing for guys to like girls one after the other. It is just me that I am not okay with it. No offense to anyone but this is jus...

You could say my current condition is based on the awesome song sung by Sam Tsui. But in my case it is friends....Not a girl http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n1p74Isbcgc I don't wanna fall out But we're all out of time (Is this over?) (Don't want an ending) In one day No way you'll be mine (Is this over?) (Don't want an ending) Mmm... (Don't want an ending) My heart is running on empty One more day and then we go And, yeah, the time goes on now Don't ask me how, I don't know We'll be home tomorrow 'Bout a thousand miles too far away Say you won't forget and I'll be okay At least tonight It's just you and me and honestly That's everything I need I don't wanna fall out But we're all out of time (Is this over?) (Don't want an ending) In one day No way you'll be mine (Is this over?) (Don't want an ending) Tonight's a countdown 'Til the day we're not around (Is this over?) (Don't want an ending) Then y...