Relationships

Basically in life what everyone wants to do and has to do is to build relationships. Relationship...A word by itself holds a strong significance. You see the word relationship the things that pops out of your mind enxt are words like love, bridges, loyalty, trust, honesty and the list goes on. See how strong that word is? Well if one has common sense one would try their best to connect with everyone instead of isolating themselves. Why? Okay in life the most important thing to achieve( besides anything to do with God) is have successful relationships.

When you die, you would not say " bring me my certificates and my trophies I want to see them before I die". Hell No! You would say " let me see my family, friends and wife" You would love to see your love ones before you go. If no one surrounds you at your death bed...aint it sad. Feels like no one cares ( Although God does).Relationship is very important. That is why I put it as one of my priorities in my life.

I have an original saying...well I hope it is cause I really thought of it myself.

" It doesn't matter where we are but who we are with "- By Eddryll 2010
one more one more XP
although it bares no relevance
" To be a human, one must be patient "

obviously I have lots more to write on this but I lack time.
OK see you next time.

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