Malaysian Christian Writes

Before I begin, the title that started with a 'him' instead of 'her' has nothing to do with sexism. There is only so much we can know about a person . Truth be told no matter how much one can disclose, there is always one part of a person that you do not know. The secret background of the person. The unknown . The thing is, we are never truly ourselves when we are in the public. Even with your best friend, there is always that 10% of you that you may be hiding, be it consciously or not. We put on a mask for the world to see everyday.  Let me tell you the moment when I can be truly myself is when I am with my family . You may say you know the person. True, but only to a certain extend. The person next to you may be a ex-convict, the person opposite you that wears pink pants is actually a PhD holder, the person going crazy jumping around can be a Motivational speaker. You never know. =_=( yup you never do). People see me as outgoing always so joyful and happ...

We....are.....only...human.   We are nothing but a lump of clay.  We are imperfect in many ways yet beautiful.  Everyone has their own problems not only you. If you observe a little more, you will see that everyone wants someone beside them when they are sad, everyone just wants company, everyone needs answers, everyone is searching for the right thing, not only you. We continue to do wrong, and judge, condemn, compare, be ignorant, be insensitive and lose ourselves along the way. We are only HUMAN and no doubt we all need help. Remind yourselves that no one is in control. We cannot control the circumstances that happens to us. Everyone has their own little cry in their hearts that needs to be mended. We get hurt, we have broken families,  we all get lonely, we all have trouble letting go, we all go through SHIT.  All of us go through all of this at some point in life. But is the answer to get all worked up over it? Be depressed? Get mad? Act as if e...